Don't marry your daughter just because of the fear of 'what people will say', these 3 reasons are absolutely useless (Image Source: AI-Generated)
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Lifestyle Desk, New Delhi. Do you want to marry her because she's 'in love' with someone or just because she's glued to her phone all day?
Often parents decide to send their daughters away from home due to 'fear of disgrace' or 'family pressure', but is it really for their welfare, or are you just shirking a responsibility?
This article will open your eyes. Here, with the help of Rujuta Diwekar, we will talk about those 3 'Wrong Reasons To Get Married' due to which you should not marry your daughter at all. Also, let you know when a girl actually 'qualifies' for marriage.
Never get married for these 3 reasons
1. "My daughter has fallen in love with someone"
Often parents think that if the daughter has fallen in love, she should get married before the family gets disgraced. This thinking is completely wrong. It is natural to fall in love at the age of 18 to 21. Experts say that if she will not experience love in her youth, then when will she? This is not possible in old age.
So, let him feel loved, but also make him aware of his safety. Explain to him that he should not waste his time and focus on his education and career. Overall, it is not right to impose marriage because of love.
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2. "There is pressure from mother-in-law and husband"
The second most common and wrong reason is that your husband or mother-in-law is pressurizing you to get your daughter married. You should tell them in clear words that they should find some other 'time pass' to spend their time. Just because marriage is on her mind doesn't mean your daughter is ready for it. Rujuta Diwekar says that unless the daughter is ready, do not take this decision on the advice of others.
3. "She's on the phone all day"
Many parents think that their daughter is on the phone all day long, so after getting her married, she should be sent away from home so that this habit is not seen again. According to Rujuta Diwekar, this is the parents running away from their responsibilities. She says that if the daughter uses the phone too much, then it is the duty of the parents to make her understand.
Create a 'screen zone' at home and ban phone use. Tell him that the design of the phone is such that it becomes addictive. Instead of tying him in marriage, teach him to focus on studies, career and health.
These are the 3 right qualifications for marriage
According to Rujuta Diwekar, you should think about your daughter's marriage only if she meets these three criteria:
Rujuta Diwekar says that let your daughters breathe easy and live a peaceful life. Only after they meet the three criteria mentioned above, ask them if they want to get married, and if they answer "no", listen to them and don't pressure them.
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