Why does being too 'good' reduce your value? (Image Source: AI-Generated)
Lifestyle Desk, New Delhi. Since childhood we are taught – “Be nice to everyone”, “Help everyone”, but did anyone ever tell you that being ‘too nice’ can also be dangerous? There is an old saying - "Don't be so bitter that someone spits, and don't be so sweet that someone swallows." This is 100% true in today's world. Let us know how excessive goodness can become your enemy.
It becomes difficult to say 'no'
Are you one of those people who leave their important work and run to help others? If yes, then be careful. When you say 'yes' to everything, people start considering your goodness as your 'duty'. They begin to feel that you are always available. Gradually people stop respecting you because no one understands the value of things that are easily obtained.
People start taking it lightly
The biggest problem with overly nice people is that the world mistakes them for being weak. When you don't get angry or protest even when something is wrong, people think, "Oh, he won't say anything." This behavior can set you back in the office, among friends, and even in the family. Your opinion loses importance.
What about your own peace of mind?
In the pursuit of keeping others happy, we often strangle our own happiness. When you ignore your own needs and live for others, anger and irritability start growing inside. You feel cheated. This situation can lead you to mental stress and depression. Remember, you can't pour tea for someone else from an empty cup, you have to fill your own first.
Is becoming bad the solution?
no way! Goodness is the most beautiful jewel of a human being, so you don't have to take it off at all. You just need to be a little 'sensible' with it, because there is a difference between being nice and being 'stupid'.
The secret of success and peace is balance. You have to learn when to help and when to step back. When someone tries to take advantage of you, learn to say 'no' politely and firmly.
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