What should you do so that people take you seriously? (Image Source: AI-Generated)
Lifestyle Desk, New Delhi. Imagine, you are sitting in a meeting, you say something important, but your words get lost somewhere in the air. People listen to you, but don't 'accept' you. Do you often sacrifice your own happiness to help others, yet in the end you don't get the respect you deserve?
Actually, there is a bitter truth of the world - "A diamond is precious because it is not found everywhere, and a stone is found in the feet because it is lying in the street." If people are taking you for granted, it means you have started to lower your value. Psychology says that people will respect you the way you teach them to treat themselves (How To Be Taken Seriously).
If you want people in the crowd to look at you and your words have weight, then these 5 psychological tricks (Psychological Tricks For Respect) can prove to be a game-changer for you. Let's find out.
The price of something that is available all the time goes down. If you leave all your work and run away when someone calls you, people start thinking that you are free.
What to do: Stop saying "yes" every time. Sometimes it is necessary to say "no". When you put your priorities first, people learn to value your time.
speak less but speak forcefully
People who talk too much often lose the depth of their words. Psychology says that people listen more attentively to those who speak in short and measured words.
What to do: Instead of getting into an argument, express your opinion peacefully. When you speak less, the 'value' of your words increases and people wait to listen to you.
The magic of 'eye contact' and body language
Your confidence is reflected in your body before your words. If you walk with your shoulders hunched or look away while talking, people start considering you weak.
What to do: Look into the eyes of the other person while talking. Stand straight and have a dignity in your gait. Strong body language shows your power without even speaking.
People easily manipulate a person who gets angry quickly or starts crying over small things. People respect only those who know how to remain calm even in difficult situations.
What to do: Don't react immediately to everything. Remain calm and respond thoughtfully. Your silence can sometimes prove to be your greatest weapon.
Stop being a mouthful. When you brag about your achievements, people start getting bored and consider you 'showy'.
What to do: Do your work so quietly that your success makes noise. When other people praise you, it enhances your identity.
Special thing: Respect is not asked for, it is earned. When you start respecting yourself, the world automatically starts respecting you.
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